Wisdom???????

See what I found when I went through my old old stuff..

Be a Friend to make a Friend.

Are you looking for a friend who would be there only for you? And you come across someone who is alone looking for someone who would share his/her thoughts. Would you take him/her as your friend? Or would you be a friend to him/her?
Being a friend to someone is much more better than having a friend. Seeing someone smile just because of You --- doesn't that give you pleasure? Hearing the other's sorrows and seeing that the person is comforted just because of You --- doesnt that give you pleasure? Don't you feel happy when your suggested measures to a person to overcome his/her problems become successful? Don't you feel great when others trust you? "It takes years to build up trust but only seconds to break it."
A smile can do wonders. Don't you smile when the person whom you helped looks at you and smiles lovingly? Isn't it nice to be loved by someone and to give love in return too? But this friendship, this trust, this love.. it should not be one-sided affair, it must be present on both sides. "Someone likes you, give love in return too, if someone doesn't like you, still give love in return."
Be nice to someone and they be nice to you in return, be harsh and they start hating you.
After all this you find that you have found your friend--- You have found someone to love, to talk to, to smile with and to be with. Then there ends the hunt.
So
Be a Friend, to make a Friend.



And this is also signed Jo.. that was the nickname i had back when I was in the 8-9th std. These words are the same as I had written that time.. with no changes. No editing done. In the modern view.. all these are meaningless. The modern view is more like 'Be your own friend.. nobody cares to befriend you'. You can't know whom to trust and whom not to.. and wouldn't know who would be making a fool of you.
Thanks a lotttt....

Brick by Brick..

And there Our Brick Laying ceremony is done. Our house can officially start taking shape.
It was a simple affair attended by only a few, that would be Us 4 and the Pujari and the architect and some workers and Manjanna. The whole thing took not more than 45 mins and then we were zooming back to get away from the heat. The heat was to quote my bros words 'Devastating'.
It really drained the hell outta us that the only thing we could do was lie around in our sanctuary called home.. and even then we were sweating like hell. I had to squeeze out my pillow off the sweat twice.. thats killing all exaggeration. And Charlie was in giving me company al the time. He slept throughout with his arms stretched back over the head like me. We were such a pair. And poor bro.. he had to get to his work.... wonder how he fared..
So coming back to the topic.. the work would start soon... And I Cant Wait for it to get over...
Am so impatient... but that cants be affroded in cases like these lest you wanna live holding your roof and i mean that literally over ur head.. so i can wait.. no problem.
The prospect of atlast having a room all fir myself is toooooo inviting. I am gonna be very hard hearted and am not gonna let anybody put up any of their stuff in my room... Not even one small dark corner. Uh-huh. Nope.
And of course I will take over ma bros room coz.. hey he doesnt really need such a big room does he??? And my friends would surely visit so... woooow..... it would really be cool...
So not going more into details for fear of jinxing any progress.... I wish all Luck to our little house...
Insha-Allah...!!!!

Yipeeeee........